Redeeming Your Love: How to Date After Heartbreak with Faith, Wisdom & Power

JILL | INNER HEALING COACH
Jul 21
3 min read

Updated: Jul 29

Sis, you were never created to settle. Not for breadcrumbs. Not for confusion. Not for red flags dressed in romance.

But if you've walked through the fire of betrayal, trauma, or divorce...If your heart has been handed to the wrong man more than once...If you're still healing from the wounds no one could see...

Let me say this clearly: What happened to you was not your fault. But what happens next? That’s yours to take back—with God’s help, wisdom, and truth.

You’re Not Starting Over — You’re Starting Redeemed

The world will tell you to just “get back out there.” Swipe. Post. Repeat. But healing before dating isn’t weakness—it’s warfare.

The truth is, most women were never taught how to date in a way that protects their peace, honors their worth, and aligns with God’s vision for love. We were trained to chase butterflies, not character. To ignore red flags in the name of hope. To stay silent instead of speaking up. To shrink in exchange for “being chosen.”

But that ends here.

You Don’t Need Another Dating App—You Need a Healing Strategy

That’s why I created the Redeeming Your Love: Dating Guide for Women 30+

It’s not fluff. It’s not cute. It’s not another list of tips from someone who hasn’t lived it.

This is hard-earned wisdom forged through:

Two divorces
A narcissistic relationship
Years of trauma-informed healing and inner work
Faithful surrender and restoration through Christ

And now, it’s your turn.

Inside This Guide, You’ll Learn How To:

Spot emotional red flags before they wreck your peace
Identify green flags rooted in integrity, faith, and maturity
Ask the right questions—and actually listen for fruit, not fantasy
Protect yourself from love bombing, trauma bonding, and cycles of dysfunction
Understand your attachment, instincts, and patterns from a biblical and trauma-informed lens
Trust yourself again—and trust God even more

What Makes This Guide Different?

Because it’s faith-based and trauma-informed, you’re not just getting advice. You’re getting a roadmap that honors:

Your nervous system
Your soul
Your history
And most importantly, your God-given value

You won’t find toxic “Christian dating” rules here. No shame. No pressure. No purity culture guilt. Just truth, clarity, and grace.

Before You Date Again, I Want You to Know…

You are not too broken. You are not too much. You are not behind. And you are absolutely not alone.

God is still writing your story. But this time, He’s asking you to co-author it with wisdom. To pause before entertaining potential. To pray before giving access. To discern before attaching.

You are not looking for someone to save you. Jesus already did that. You’re looking for someone to walk with you in truth, love, and purpose.

Bonus Gifts: Because Your Healing Matters

When you purchase the Redeeming Your Love Dating Guide, you’ll also receive:

🌸 The 7-Day Devotional: Redeeming Your Love– A week of healing scripture, powerful prayers, and reflections to guide you spiritually as you prepare your heart for love again.

📝 The Dating Discernment Questions Journal– A workbook companion filled with deep, purposeful questions to ask while dating and journaling space to reflect, process, and invite God into your journey.

💖 Ready to Redeem Your Love Story?

You’ve healed. You’ve grown. Now it’s time to date with faith, fire, and discernment.

👉 Grab your copy of the guide now REDEEMING YOUR LOVE DATING GUIDE AFTER ABUSE/TRAUMA/DIVORCE | Women Over 30 Yrs Old

Because this time, you’re not dating in fear…You’re dating in wisdom. And that changes everything.

Ready to Heal and Reclaim Your Voice?

Start your journey now with these powerful, faith-rooted resources:

Trauma Quiz and Answer Key
Your Brain is Speaking: Truth About Trauma – How to Regulate Your Mind & Body
What Stress and Trauma Do to Your Body
Redeeming Your Love Dating Guide (for 30+ or Young Women)
Healthy Happy Habits eBook – for a mind-body-soul reset rooted in God’s wisdom