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Who is this for?
Redeeming Your Love is for the woman who refuses to repeat the same heartbreak twice.
For the woman who is done settling for confusion, inconsistency, and counterfeit connection…and ready to date with peace, clarity, discernment, and God-led wisdom.
This is for you if:
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You don’t trust your discernment anymore.
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You’ve ignored red flags because loneliness felt louder than logic.
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You’ve confused chemistry with real connection — more than once.
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You’ve attracted emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or narcissistic men.
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You’ve over-given, over-explained, or shrunk yourself to “make it work.”
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You’ve walked through divorce, betrayal, emotional manipulation, or spiritual abuse.
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You hear yourself saying, “I’m scared I’ll choose wrong again.”
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You want a relationship that honors God — and honors your worth.
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You want dating to feel peaceful, not stressful.
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You’re done repeating cycles you’ve already healed beyond.
If your heart whispered, “Yes… that’s me,” you’re exactly who this program was created for.
WHY YOU NEED THIS
THE STATISTICS NO ONE TALKS ABOUT
These numbers reveal the truth:
Women everywhere are hurting, repeating cycles, and searching for healing — and you are NOT alone.
🔥 78% of divorced women enter another unhealthy or emotionally unsafe relationship within 2 years. -Journal of Marriage & Family
Most women don’t pick “bad” men again because they want to —
but because unhealed patterns stay in the driver’s seat.
🔥 Women with a history of emotional abuse are 3x more likely to choose partners who recreate the same pain. -American Psychological Association
Trauma makes the familiar feel “safe,” even when it isn’t.
This is not your fault — it’s neuroscience.
🔥 1 in 3 Christian women experience emotional or psychological abuse in their lifetime. -Barna Research
The church talks about forgiveness…
but rarely talks about the wounds women carry into dating.
🔥 62% of women lose trust in their own discernment after divorce, betrayal, or a toxic breakup. -AARP Relationship Study
This is why so many women say:
“I don’t trust myself to choose anymore.”
🔥 Women over 40 are twice as likely to attract emotionally unavailable men. -Psychology of Women Quarterly
Why?
Loneliness, shrinking social circles, survival patterns, and hormonal shifts all affect attraction and boundaries.
🔥 Trauma dysregulates attraction — making intensity feel like connection and chaos feel like chemistry. -Polyvagal Theory Research
This is why “red flags” can feel exciting…
and healthy men can feel “boring.”
🔥 70% of Christian women say no one ever taught them how to date with wisdom, boundaries, or discernment. -Barna & Lifeway
And without tools, women repeat cycles they desperately want to break.
Pain doesn’t disappear with time — it repeats until it’s healed.
This is the cycle Redeeming Your Love breaks.
Through faith, neuroscience, trauma healing, and God-rooted discernment…
you finally learn to choose from your worth, not your wounds.
Why Dating After Abuse Feels So Hard
(And Why It’s Not Your Fault)
When you’ve survived abuse, betrayal, manipulation, or years of emotional inconsistency, your heart learns to love from survival mode.
You weren’t choosing men from your worth —you were choosing them from your wounds.
Trauma changes everything:
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It rewires your nervous system.
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It distorts your intuition.
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It weakens your discernment.
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It makes red flags feel familiar instead of dangerous.
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It makes chaos feel like connection.
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It makes dysfunction feel like “home.”
This is not a character flaw.
This is a trauma response.
You didn’t struggle because you were naïve, stupid, blind, or desperate.
You struggled because you were wounded.
But those wounds can be healed.
Your clarity can be restored.
Your discernment can be strengthened.
Your heart can learn what safety feels like again.
You are not rebuilding alone —
God is rebuilding WITH you.
What This Course Helps You Heal
After abuse, betrayal, or emotionally inconsistent relationships, the deepest wounds aren’t the ones people can see.
They’re the wounds you learned to silence, ignore, or hide just to survive.
Redeeming Your Love Safe & Sacred Dating helps you heal the places in you that never should have been harmed — the parts of your heart God always meant to protect.
Here’s what you rebuild inside this 5-week journey:
1. Your Discernment
So, you stop second-guessing yourself, stop missing red flags, and start confidently recognizing a man’s true intentions, character, and consistency.
2. Your Identity and Self-Worth
So, love no longer feels like something you have to earn, prove, or negotiate for — but something you receive from a grounded, God-rooted place.
3. Your Nervous System and Emotional Patterns
So, you no longer feel drawn to chaos, intensity, or inconsistency… and instead feel peace and safety with emotionally healthy men.
4. Your Boundaries and Inner Strength
So, you can protect your heart without apologizing for it — and walk away the moment something feels wrong.
5. Your Trust in Yourself
So, your intuition becomes clear again, your voice becomes stronger, and your confidence returns.
6. Your Ability to Choose God-Aligned Love
So, the next relationship you step into is one that honors your worth, reflects God’s heart, and supports your emotional, spiritual, and physical well-being.
This isn’t just about dating differently.
It’s about becoming the healed woman who chooses differently.
The Course Promise
When you heal the parts of you that were shaped by trauma, betrayal, abandonment, and emotional inconsistency, you don’t just date differently — you choose differently.
Inside this 5-week, faith-rooted, trauma-informed journey, you will:
• Learn how to spot red flags and patterns before you get attached.
• Strengthen your discernment so you stop doubting yourself.
• Rebuild the confidence, clarity, and identity that past relationships weakened.
• Learn the difference between chemistry, trauma bonds, compatibility, and true God-aligned connection.
• Break emotional patterns that kept leading you back to the same kind of man in a different body.
• Heal the wounds that made you over-give, over-apologize, or stay too long.
• Learn how to walk away early — without guilt, fear, or confusion.
• Understand what healthy, consistent, emotionally mature love actually looks like.
• Restore your ability to feel safe, at peace, and worthy of steady love.
• Learn how to date with wisdom, emotional safety, and Holy-Spirit-led discernment.
• Prepare your heart for a relationship that brings peace — not chaos.
The promise is simple:
When you heal your heart, protect your worth, and strengthen your discernment…
you stop attracting what hurt you and start choosing what honors you.
What You Get
This isn’t random advice or surface-level encouragement.
This is a structured, step-by-step healing and discernment process designed to break old cycles — and build a new way of choosing love.
Inside Redeeming Your Love Safe & Sacred Dating, each week builds on the last, rewiring your patterns, strengthening your intuition, and restoring your identity in Christ.
WEEK 1 — Dating With Discernment
You’ll learn why your heart has chosen the men it has, how trauma affects attraction, and how to finally recognize a man’s true intentions early — before your heart becomes emotionally invested.
By the end of Week 1, you will:
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Understand exactly why past patterns repeated
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Know the 11 Discernment Questions to ask every new man
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See through charm, chemistry, and flattery
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Recognize emotional maturity vs. emotional manipulation
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Feel more confident than ever before in your intuition
WEEK 2 — Spotting Red Flags Before It’s Too Late
You’ll learn how to identify unhealthy behaviors, emotional manipulation, narcissistic patterns, and subtle shifts that reveal who a man really is.
By the end of Week 2, you will:
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Spot red flags in the FIRST conversations
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Understand the F.O.G. Test (Fear, Obligation, Guilt)
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Identify the difference between healthy pursuit vs. love bombing
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Know the six subtle ways narcissists influence women
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Stop second-guessing yourself or giving endless “benefits of the doubt”
WEEK 3 — The Power of Boundaries
You’ll break free from over-giving, over-accommodating, people-pleasing, and tolerating inconsistency. This week teaches you how to protect your heart without shutting it down.
By the end of Week 3, you will:
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Set boundaries that feel loving, strong, and God-centered
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Stay grounded when someone pushes your limits
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Use the Safe Communication Checklist effectively
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Access CIA-agent–inspired tactics for spotting liars & cheaters
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Stop apologizing for your standards
WEEK 4 — Healing the Heart & Breaking Cycles
This is where the transformation happens. You’ll heal the emotional patterns that kept pulling you toward the same men in different bodies.
By the end of Week 4, you will:
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Understand your personal “Survival System” and how to dismantle it
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Break the emotional cycles you inherited or learned
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Heal the wounds that kept you attached to inconsistency
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Stop mistaking intensity for connection
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Reconnect to your God-given identity, worth, and peace
WEEK 5 — Dating With Peace, Clarity & Purpose
Now that you’re healed, grounded, and discerning, this week teaches you how to date with confidence, emotional safety, and spiritual alignment.
By the end of Week 5, you will:
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Know exactly how to evaluate a man’s character
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Use the Post-Date Reflection Tool to stay anchored in truth
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Date without anxiety or overthinking
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Stay connected to God’s wisdom instead of fear
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Recognize healthy love when you see it
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Feel prepared for the kind of relationship that brings peace — not chaos
**By the end of all five weeks, you won’t just know how to date…
You’ll know how to choose — from your healed self, not your hurt self.**
Everything You Get Inside Redeeming Your Love Safe & Sacred Dating
This isn’t just a course — it’s a transforming and discernment system built for women who want to date with confidence, peace, and God-led wisdom.
Inside, you get every tool, every teaching, every workbook, every checklist, and every guided reflection you need to break your old cycles and finally choose differently.
Here’s what’s waiting for you:
5 Core Weekly Lessons (Video-Based)
Each week includes deep, trauma-informed, faith-rooted teaching to help you understand your patterns, rebuild your identity, and strengthen your discernment.
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No fluff.
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No surface-level tips.
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Only the powerful, practical guidance you’ve been missing.
Weekly Reflection Workbook
Your full 5-week workbook, filled with:
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Guided reflections
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Nervous system awareness exercises
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Discernment-building strategies
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Self-worth strengthening prompts
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Scripture-based grounding
This is your safe space to process, heal, and rebuild.
The 11-Question Discernment Guide
The exact questions that reveal who a man really is.
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Not his charm.
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Not his potential.
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His truth.
The F.O.G. Test (Fear, Obligation, Guilt)
Learn how manipulators, narcissists, and emotionally unavailable men use subtle tactics to keep you emotionally hooked.
You will never fall for these again.
19 Characteristics of a Narcissist
Clear, simple, biblically aligned.
No more mistaking manipulation for love.
6 Subtle Ways Narcissists Influence Women
These are the behaviors most women miss — until it’s too late.
Not anymore.
The Chart of Men
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Truth-tellers.
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Liars.
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Cheaters.
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Manipulators.
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Healthy men.
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Avoidant men.
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Emotionally stunted men.
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Spiritually grounded men.
This chart shows you EXACTLY who you’re dealing with.
Safe Communication Checklist
So you can stop over-explaining, over-sharing, or “trying to be chosen,” and instead communicate with emotional confidence.
CIA Agent–Inspired Tactics (Spotting Liars & Cheaters)
A simple, powerful system to detect inconsistency, dishonesty, and emotional danger.
Boundaries Journal
Finally build boundaries that feel confident, compassionate, and Christ-centered.
Post-Date Reflection Questionnaire
To help you stay rooted in clarity, not chemistry.
Truth, not fantasy.
Discernment, not emotional confusion.
Devotional for Women 30+
A short, powerful spiritual guide to restore your identity, settle your heart, and bring God into your dating journey.
Devotional for Younger Women
A separate, age-appropriate devotional to help younger women avoid the pain you had to survive.
Lifetime Access to All Materials
You can revisit this journey every season of your life.
Lifetime Updates
Any time the course expands, gets upgraded, or receives new tools…
you get access, free.
**This isn’t just a course. It’s the system that finally breaks the cycle.
And it’s everything you were never taught — but always needed. **
WHY I CREATED REDEEMING YOUR LOVE
I didn’t create this course from theory.
I created it from the rubble of my own life.
I know what it feels like to lose yourself in a relationship.
To ignore red flags because you wanted connection.
To believe someone’s potential instead of their patterns.
To stay longer than you should have because your heart was loyal, hopeful, and tender.
I know the pain of betrayal.
The confusion of emotional inconsistency.
The heartbreak of being judged, blamed, and misunderstood.
The shame that whispers, “How did I end up here again?”
I also know what it feels like to rebuild with God —
slowly, gently, step by step —
until your peace returns…
your identity strengthens…
your discernment sharpens…
and you finally become the woman who chooses differently.
Redeeming Your Love Safe & Sacred Dating was born from that journey.
It’s everything I wish someone gave me:
the truth, the tools, the safety, the discernment, the spiritual wisdom,
and the emotional clarity I needed to stop repeating cycles and finally walk in the love God always intended for me.
If you are in the place I once was — hurting but hopeful, afraid but ready —
then this program was created for you.
You don’t have to heal alone.
You don’t have to date blindly.
You don’t have to wonder if you’ll repeat the past.
There is a better way.
And I will show you how to walk it — with God holding every step.
THE TRANSFORMATION YOU WILL EXPERIENCE
This course doesn’t just give you information…it creates internal change.
This is the work that shifts your identity, calms your nervous system, sharpens your discernment, restores your confidence, and prepares you for the kind of love God always intended for you.
Inside this course you will feel the change in your:
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mind
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body
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heart
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spirit
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patterns
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decisions
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relationships
This is what transformation looks like:
You Stop Confusing Chemistry With Connection
No more mistaking intensity for intimacy.
Your body finally recognizes peace as safety — and chaos as danger.
You Trust Your Intuition Again
That inner voice you lost in past relationships.
It returns stronger, clearer, and Holy Spirit–led.
You See Red Flags Immediately
Not in hindsight.
Not after you're attached.
Early.
Clearly.
Confidently.
You Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
When your nervous system heals, your patterns shift.
You stop being drawn to inconsistency…
and become drawn to emotional maturity.
You Stop Over-Giving, Over-Explaining, and Over-Staying
You learn how to protect your heart without guilt.
Walk away early.
Set biblical, healthy boundaries.
And no longer second-guess yourself.
You Start Feeling Worthy of Healthy, Steady Love
Not love you have to earn.
Not love you have to chase.
Not love you have to shrink for.
Love that meets you where you are — grounded, consistent, God-aligned.
Dating Feels Peaceful, Not Panic-Inducing
No more spiraling.
No more overthinking.
No more analyzing mixed signals.
You date anchored, calm, and centered in truth.
You Become the Transformed Woman Who Chooses Differently
Patterns break.
Clarity rises.
Strength deepens.
God’s voice becomes louder than fear.
And you begin choosing from your healed identity — not your trauma.
THIS IS YOUR RESULT:
A heart that is grounded in truth, peace, safety and self-love.
A mind that is clear.
A body that is regulated.
Discernment that is sharp.
Boundaries that feel natural.
Peace that becomes your normal.
And the confidence to choose a relationship that honors God — and honors YOU.
THE PEACE PROMISE GUARANTEE
Redeeming Your Love Safe & Sacred Dating is a digital, self-paced program with immediate access to all lessons, tools, and materials. Because this is a fully delivered digital product, all enrollments are final and non-refundable.
This course is designed with care, compassion, and the deep belief that healing is possible when we commit to the process. If you show up, engage with the lessons, and complete the weekly work, you will gain clarity, confidence, and stronger discernment in your dating life.
My promise is simple:
This program will support the woman who is willing to do the work.
Take your time, move at your own pace, and let God meet you in each step.
Your healing matters.
Your peace matters.
And you can enter this journey with confidence, knowing you’ll receive everything you need to walk forward in wisdom and emotional safety.
FAQ's Is this course only for women over 40? No. While many women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s join because of life experience, heartbreak, or divorce, this program is powerful for women of any age who want to heal their patterns and choose wisely. What if I’m not dating anyone right now? This is actually the best time to take the course. Redeeming Your Love helps you heal before you date, so you can step into future relationships with clarity, peace, and discernment instead of repeating old cycles. I’m currently in a complicated or confusing relationship. Will this help me? Yes. This course will help you see the truth more clearly, understand the emotional patterns at play, and make decisions from a grounded, God-led place — not fear or attachment. What if I’m recently divorced or still healing? You don’t need to be “fully healed” to begin. This course supports you through the healing process and teaches you how to rebuild your identity, confidence, boundaries, and discernment step by step. Is this a faith-based program? Yes. Redeeming Your Love is rooted in biblical wisdom, emotional healing, and practical relationship tools. You don’t need to be perfect in your faith — just open and willing to grow. What if I have trauma history? This course is trauma-informed and designed with sensitivity, compassion, and nervous system awareness. You will never be pushed; everything is at your pace. You’ll gain tools to regulate your emotions, understand your patterns, and choose from a healed place. How long do I have access to the course? You receive lifetime access. You can revisit the lessons, tools, and workbooks as many times as you want, at the pace you need. What is your refund policy? Because this is a digital program with immediate access to all materials, all sales are final and non-refundable. You are encouraged to take your time, move at your pace, and allow the process to support you fully. What if I fall behind? There is no “behind” in this course. Redeeming Your Love is self-paced and designed to meet you exactly where you are. You can pause, revisit, and return whenever you need. Will this help me date after narcissistic abuse? Yes. This course directly addresses trauma bonds, emotional manipulation, nervous system triggers, and how to rebuild your sense of worth and discernment so you never repeat those patterns again.
How It Works
1. Enroll and get instant access to Week 1.
As soon as you join, you receive immediate access to the first week’s lesson, tools, and workbook pages.
2. Follow the weekly flow.
Each lesson is 20–30 minutes, with 10-30 minutes of daily practice to help you integrate the tools and shift your patterns.
3. Engage with the workbook and truly focus on your weekly bible verse. These keep you grounded, honest, and connected to God’s truth as you move through the healing process.
4. Move gently and at your own pace.
There is no rush. This is steady, sacred progress — not pressure, perfection, or performance.