RAISING HER WORTH
She learned what love feels like through you. Or she learned it through your absence. Either way she learned it from you.
For the leader who refuses to let that be her story.
1 in 3
WOMEN EXPERIENCE ABUSE
75%
BEFORE THE AGE OF 16
20 Years
JILL HAS SERVED WOMEN
Every woman carrying a father wound was once a little girl in someone's care.
Raising Her Worth is for the leader who refuses to let that be her story.
Before you read another word — this is for you.
THE CALLING
I will not be silent.
And neither should you.
These statistics are not abstract. They belong to daughters, sisters, students, and congregants sitting in your pews, your classrooms, and your homes right now. The problem is not new. The silence around it has been. For two decades I have worked with women carrying wounds shaped long before they walked into my office — wounds formed by the absence, the passivity, or the harmful presence of the men who were supposed to be their first experience of safe love. That changes when leaders decide it does.
THE STANDARD
Formation is happening whether you are intentional about it or not.
Girls are being shaped every day by what is permitted, modeled, and left unchallenged in their homes, churches, and communities. The question is never whether formation is happening. The question is whether anyone responsible for her is leading it intentionally.
Raising Her Worth exists to give fathers, pastors, mentors, and mothers the language, the standards, and the practical tools to act before confusion takes hold — before worth is eroded, before damage requires healing, before she spends years searching for what she should have been given before she had words for any of it.
This is not inspiration. It is formation. And it begins with you.
LEADERSHIP FORMATION GUIDE
Raising Her Worth
$47.95
Most men were never taught how to raise a daughter who knows her worth, recognizes dishonor, trusts her instincts, and understands what healthy love should look like.
Raising Her Worth is a 138-page guide created for fathers, grandfathers, stepfathers, mothers, coaches, pastors, churches, ministries, mentors, and professionals who influence girls and young women.
It gives you the language, conversations, and standards to teach:
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healthy love and respect
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boundaries and consent
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character over charm
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manipulation, coercion, and red flags
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emotional safety and discernment
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why she is never responsible for fixing an unsafe man
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how to trust what she sees and knows
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why another person’s behavior never determines her worth and so much more!
She should learn these things before dating, before college, before harmful patterns become normalized, and before someone tries to convince her she deserves less.
That is what Raising Her Worth was created to do.
The 168-page companion workbook (below) takes the teaching deeper with practical reflection, discussion, application, and conversation tools for homes, churches, ministries, coaching, mentoring, and group settings.
Raising Her Worth eBook
138 pages | $47.95
Institutional licensing available for churches, schools, and organizations. Contact Jill today to learn more.
COMPANION LEADERSHIP WORKBOOK
Reading changes what you know. This workbook changes what you do.
$27.95
The Raising Her Worth Workbook is a 168-page application guide designed to turn the teaching into real conversations, real reflection, and real change.
Each chapter includes reflection questions, action steps, legacy challenges, group discussion prompts, marriage conversation starters, prayers, and Scripture connected to the topic.
It also includes 11 practical leadership tools, including:
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Daddy-Daughter Conversation Starters
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Mother-Daughter Conversation Starters
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Cycle Breaker Assessment
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Red & Green Flag Recognition Guides
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Digital Covenant & Safety
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Father and Mother Conversation Guides on Pornography
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Rites of Passage Planning Tools
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Green Flag Conversation Starters for all Fourteen Qualities of an Honorable Man
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No Is a Full Sentence framework
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Repair and Accountability Framework
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Legacy Reflection Exercises and more!
This is not a fill-in-the-blank companion book. It is a complete formation resource designed for use in the home, marriage, men’s groups, churches, ministries, coaching, mentoring, and large-group settings, with guidance for how to use it in each environment.
Raising Her Worth Workbook
168 pages | $27.95
Institutional licensing available for churches, schools, and organizations. Contact Jill today to learn more.
WHO IS THIS FOR
If you lead anyone,
this was written for you.
FATHERS
You are her first picture of what a man is. What you show her now she will search for or flee from for the rest of her life.
PASTORS & CHURCH LEADERS
The church carries a charge it has not fully answered. This resource equips every congregation ready to change that.
MENTORS & YOUTH LEADERS
You may be the only safe male presence in her life. That is not a small thing. It is everything.
MOTHERS
You are raising a daughter in a world that challenges her worth every single day. This helps you understand the formation she needs.
SEMINARIES & SCHOOLS
Every leader you train will influence women for decades. Equip them before the damage requires healing.
ORGANIZATIONS
Institutional licensing available. Bring this to your leadership team, staff, or entire congregation.
WHAT LEADERS ARE SAYING
Real leaders.
Real formation.
"Raising Her Worth gave me practical language and tools I never had. It opened my eyes to how much influence a father carries in a girl's life and how to use that influence well every single day."
Mark - Leader
"Raising Her Worth is a necessary resource for fathers and male leaders. It clearly reveals how a father's love shapes a girl's identity and future relationships. This message is honest, timely, and deeply needed."
Rhonda - Mother
FOR THE WOMAN READING THIS
You found this page for a reason.
If you recognize the wound this work is trying to prevent — you are not in the wrong place. You are exactly why this work exists. The healing journey, the resources built for your restoration, and the community waiting for you live at Inner Healing Coaching.
BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY TODAY...
GROUP AND INSTITUTIONAL LICENSING
Bring this to your entire community.
Raising Her Worth is designed to work at scale. When a church, school, seminary, or organization adopts a unified standard around formation and worth the impact reaches every family inside it. Group licensing is available for organizations ready to bring this work to their community.
Institutional licensing available for churches, schools, and organizations. Contact Jill today to learn more.
JILL'S TESTIMONY
I lived the cost of their silence.
I am a survivor of childhood abuse, sexual abuse, and rape as a college freshman. I grew up in chaos with no safe male presence to show me what I was worth. I am not a victim. I am a witness. And what I witnessed is happening to millions of women right now.
“I made a promise that the pain stopped with me. Not because it was easy. Because it was necessary. Everything I have built exists because of that promise.” Jill, Inner Healing Coach
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6
Jill is an ICF Certified Somatic Integrated Trauma-Informed Coach with over two decades of experience working with women navigating identity loss, broken relationships, and the long reach of early wounds. She wrote Raising Her Worth from the other side of that pain. Not from theory. From thousands of hours sitting with women who were still searching for the standard no one established before the world got to them first.
Her work is faith-rooted, biblically grounded, and built for leaders who take formation seriously enough to be changed by it.
If you carry responsibility for the formation of children at home, in the church, or in leadership, this work belongs in your hands.
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