Redeeming Your Love: A Dating Guide Every Young Woman Deserves
- JILL | INNER HEALING COACH
- Jul 25
- 4 min read
Updated: Jul 29
Dear beautiful girl,
If you’ve ever wondered how to date without losing yourself…If you’ve questioned your worth after being ghosted, manipulated, or lied to…If your heart is tired from trying to figure out who’s real and who’s pretending...

This is for you. Actually—this is about you. Your safety. Your identity. Your future. Your heart.
As a mom of three daughters, I’ve seen firsthand how the dating world has changed—and how it demands wisdom, truth, and protection like never before. Girls are being bombarded with false ideas about love, pressured to give away too much too soon, and praised for “maturity” instead of being protected in their innocence.
That’s why I wrote the Redeeming Your Love Dating Guide for Young Women. It’s everything I wish someone had told me before I ever gave my heart away.
This is not just another dating manual.
It’s a faith-based, truth-filled, and powerfully honest guide that walks young women ages 13–25 through what it means to date with confidence, clarity, and courage—without compromising their faith or their future.
💡 Here’s what you’ll discover inside:
How to spot red flags before you get emotionally attached
What green flags actually look like—and how to become one yourself
Real talk about emotional abuse, manipulation, and staying safe (especially online)
Questions every girl should ask herself and her date before giving away her heart
Wise warnings, reflection prompts, and biblical truth that sets you free
Bonus encouragement for moms and trusted adults to walk alongside you
💔 If you've ever said:
“Why do I always attract the wrong guys?”
“Is it me?”
“I just want someone who loves me for who I am…”
Then this guide will be your wake-up call, your heart protector, and your reminder that God does not want you to settle for someone who treats you like you’re replaceable.
💖 Here's what I want every girl to know:
You don’t need to perform for love. You don’t need to earn your worth. You are not “too much.” You are not “too emotional.” You are not asking for too much by wanting to be respected, valued, and seen.
God designed you for love that reflects Him—selfless, kind, slow to anger, full of truth, and rooted in peace.
🌸 Let’s Raise the Standard Together
This dating guide is about more than who you say “yes” to on a Friday night. It’s about who you’re becoming—and how to guard your heart so it stays whole, strong, and ready to receive the kind of love that lasts.
Let’s break the cycle of heartbreak. Let’s stop normalizing toxic behavior. Let’s teach our daughters, our sisters, and our younger selves that dating doesn’t have to destroy you to shape you.

There is a better way. A God-honoring way. A healing, hopeful, holy way.
And this guide is here to walk you through it.
📘 Grab your copy of Redeeming Your Love: A Dating Guide for Young Women today written with love, truth, and your future in mind.
🛍 For women over 30: Don’t miss my guide “Redeeming Your Love: Dating After Abuse, Trauma & Loss”
💬 Moms, mentors, and big sisters: Share this. Read it together. Start the conversations that change lives.
💝 Bonus Gifts: Because Your Worth and Wisdom Matter
When you purchase the Redeeming Your Love Dating Guide for Young Women, you’ll also receive these free companion tools—created to help you date with clarity, confidence, and God’s guidance.
When you purchase the Redeeming Your Love Dating Guide for Young Women, you’ll also receive:
🌸 7-Day Devotional: Redeeming Your Love
A week of truth-filled encouragement to remind you who you are and whose you are. Each day includes a Bible verse, a short reflection, and a heartfelt prayer to center your heart in Christ before (and during) your dating journey.
📝 Dating Discernment Questions Journal
More than just a journal—this is your safe space to reflect on why you’re dating, what you’re looking for, and how you’ll stay anchored in faith, not feelings. Includes powerful questions, space to write, and reminders to pause and pray.
✅ Dating Discernment Checklist + Safety Tips
A faith-based guide to protect your heart and body as you begin to date. Packed with practical questions, biblical red flag warnings, and clear boundaries to help you recognize truth over charm—and peace over pressure.
These are not just extras—they’re essential tools to help you grow into the confident, discerning, and deeply loved young woman God created you to be.
Because your healing, your voice, your peace, and your future truly matter. 💗
Ready to Heal and Reclaim Your Voice?
Start your journey now with these powerful, faith-rooted resources:
Trauma Quiz and Answer Key
Your Brain is Speaking: Truth About Trauma – How to Regulate Your Mind & Body
What Stress and Trauma Do to Your Body
Redeeming Your Love Dating Guide (for 30+ or Young Women)
Healthy Happy Habits eBook – for a mind-body-soul reset rooted in God’s wisdom
👉 Available now at www.innerhealingcoaching.com/shop
You’re not alone, and you are not broken—you are becoming. And God is not done writing your love story. Not even close.
– Jill | INNER HEALING COACH
@innerhealingcoach
Helping women reclaim their worth, restore their voice, and walk in healing.
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