So much of healing begins with this simple truth: You don’t have to hate the woman you used to be. She wasn’t your shame — she was your survivor. She did the best she could with the tools she had, loving hard, hoping fiercely, and carrying you through seasons that almost broke you. Now you get to honor her by healing the woman you’re becoming… with wisdom, boundaries, and the kind of peace she never had access to. If you feel yourself in these words, you’re not alone — and y