You don’t owe anyone an apology for choosing peace over chaos, clarity over confusion, or healing over brokenness. The truth is, you stayed longer than you should have, loved harder than you were loved back, and gave grace where there should have been boundaries. Choosing you isn’t selfish—it’s survival. God already chose you at the cross, which means you never have to apologize for honoring the woman He created you to be.

As survivors, we know leaving is never easy. It costs everything—your home, your sense of safety, sometimes even your children. Yet no mother chooses the harder path unless staying is even harder. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I’m sharing Safe & Sacred tools to help women reclaim peace, protect their children, and take back control of their mind, body, and identity. You are not alone. 💜

Most women have never experienced true masculine leadership. It isn’t control, ego, or domination—it’s responsibility, consistency, provision, protection, and devotion. A man who leads lifts the weight from her shoulders, steadies her heart, and builds a future she can trust. When leadership is present, her whole-body exhales, because she finally feels safe to soften, rise, and love without fear.

He preached on Sunday and preyed on her the rest of the week. She cried out for help—but the church sent her back to suffer. When she finally escaped, they called her a rebel. But Jesus? He never asked her to stay and suffer. He came to set the captives free. She didn’t walk away from Him. She walked away from the wolves who used His name.

If statistics could change the world, abuse and fatherlessness would be decreasing—but they’re not. Silence is crushing a generation. Social media and pornography are discipling our sons and daughters more than fathers are. Every girl asks: Am I loved? Am I valuable? Do I matter? And men answer daily with their presence or absence. Raising Her Worth is not just a book—it’s a movement to heal, protect, and restore.